THE OPPOSITE OF SONY / N KOREA

Hi everyone - here’s my homily for the FOURTH SUNDAY OF ADVENT - DECEMBER 21, 2014. The readings for today can be found at: http://usccb.org/bible/readings/122114.cfm. Thanks as always for reading this blog, sharing it on facebook, twitter and elsewhere on the internet, and all your feedback. God Bless - Fr. Jim


As Christmas preparations begin to hit a fever pitch, could I ask you to consider a gift to our Newman Center in our Christmas Appeal?  We conduct these fundraising appeals only twice a year to help our mission of bringing Christ to our students and campus - and your generosity is greatly appreciated.  Read more at www.MSUNEWMAN.com.  Many thanks for your support and consideration.

 

HOMILY:

So how many of you have been following the story of Sony pictures getting "hacked"? To be honest, when it first surfaced a few weeks ago, I really didn’t care too much, thinking some computer-techno-wizards were doing some mischief on them for some stupid reason. Now if I understand it correctly, authorities believe North Korea is behind the attack on this film company simply because they are furious about the movie "The Interview" in which Seth Rogan and James Franco play two bafoons hired by the CIA to assassinate the president of North Korea. Things had escalated so bad from this attack (with the promise of worse things to come, including threats of terrorist attacks on movie theatres showing the film) that Sony pictures Wednesday Night canceled the release of the film.

There’s plenty for people to argue about with all of this: whether the premise of the film crossed a line or not; the caving to terroristic threats and what that means to our freedoms; the inappropriateness of stolen emails and personal, private correspondence between movie executives that were made public (and widely reported on virtually every form of media)... this story has produced all kinds of embarrassment, argument... it has so many sub-stories it’s hard to know what angle to look at. At first I thought it was kind of odd in comparison that news of Muslim extremists killing over 130 children in a school in Pakistan this week kind of moved in and out of our collective consciousness as quickly as it did. Perhaps that story is just so horrific and such a shockingly terrible atrocity that we can’t (and don’t want to) even think about. Yet, at the same time, there’s something about this Sony hacking story that resonates with all of us that there’s been a greater demand for more and more coverage of it (which is sadly how most news organizations determine what to cover and what not to).
What is it? What makes the story resonate so much? I think its that with the release of all those emails, there’s been an incredible violation of trust that has occurred. On one level, the people who wrote those emails are hurt and angry that some of their friends and colleagues in the media took advantage of this illegal attack on their company and made private, personal communications public. Even worse is the content of those emails. Often they revealed what movie executives really think of their actors and actresses in harsh, unfiltered, at times even racist tones. From calling one actress a spoiled brat, to pointing out one comedian’s long trail of failed movies - to actors ripping on one another and comparing how their movie did better than someone else's. Even saying that some of their own films were bad.



The whole thing is really ugly. And the reason I didn’t share names of specific examples is because it is so ugly. How does Sony Pictures and these hollywood actors and actresses move forward? As an industry that celebrates how "connected" everyone is to each other -from agents, to actors, to executives - I’m not sure if a lot of the people implicated in these emails (and those feasting on their being shared) realize how much damage has been done on this personal level. It’s one thing when people might speculate that "my boss isn’t telling me the truth" - or "I don’t think they like me..." it’s quite another to read the exchanges confirming that. All the public relations spin and image consultants being hired will not be able to heal some of the painful things that have been revealed.

One of the few celebrities who’s gone on the record to respond to all of this is comedian Kevin Hart - who I think makes a solid point and reveals the anger that must be shared by a lot of his fellow actors underneath the surface - "Knowing your self-worth is extremely important people... I worked extremely hard to get where I am today... I will never allow myself to be taken advantage of ... which is why I’m able to brush ignorance off my shoulder and continue to move forward. I refuse to be broken."


Knowing your self-worth... Trusting those around you. That’s essential not just in Hollywood. Everyone of us desires those things, searches for those things as well. Whether that’s jobs or relationships. It’s why you sometimes end up looking for another job - while at other times you might be shedding tears at having to leave one for another. It’s why some relationships work - and others don’t. [It’s why you as alumni over the last years have remained bonded together despite where you’ve traveled, where you’re careers have taken you. Relationships were formed here at Newman Catholic. You know you were - check that - you know that you are loved for who you are and you are able to unite as a community... centered on the truest, purest of loves - the love of God for us, made real in Jesus Christ – who is the center of Newman Catholic]

Which is why this last Sunday of Advent, as we shift our focus to recall the miraculous, amazing things bringing about Jesus’ coming into humanity, tonight we hear in the Gospel about Mary, the Blessed Mother. And there’s so many beautiful things to reflect on, but with all that negative gossip from the Sony news scandal, something hit me. What a contrast we see in the Gospel to what we so often experience in the world around us. God reveals to this young virgin girl - her incredible worth, and His trust in her. The Lord looks at her; sees her, loves her; trusts her, engages her in His plan to save all humanity. Through the visit of an angel, she is told explicitly: "Hail, full of Grace! The Lord is with you!... You have found favor with God."



In this passage from St. Luke as he shares the story of Jesus "incarnation" - just think about how God enters into humanity in the womb of Mary. That in itself is an overwhelming thing to consider, that the almighty, eternal, Holy One would step into human history in the meekest, simplest, quietest way possible. And all of this hinged on Mary’s response. Would she be open to imaging "What great things does God want to conceive in me?"

Every Christmas season I’m struck about the reality that it had to have been Mary who shared this story. St. Luke wasn’t a reporter witnessing this event... It was only she and the Angel who were there. And if you think about it, how humble she was in her recollection? She doesn’t take any glory for herself. She doesn’t recount all the sacrifice she had to have made in saying Yes to God – that Joseph and her had to abandon their plans, their dreams. She doesn’t dwell on how hard this was, the pain she endured as the Mother of God (imagine her having to witness the brutality of her only son’s Passion and Crucifixion... ) None of that is there. Mary’s remembrance of her being invited into the history of the salvation of the world by Jesus Christ finds her simply blown away that God would conceive His son in her. She is able to say yes knowing what God thinks of her - knowing her self-worth, trusting in Him.

This whole experience confirms everything she had learned about God throughout her life. Jesus’ entrance into humanity through her took all that she in her heart had believed to this very point to a whole new, deeper, intimate understanding. All of the negative, challenging aspects from her story that she must have experienced seem to fade from her mind. She’s left awestruck remembering the words of the angel – words that rang true in her own life: that nothing will be impossible for God.

For you and I, this Gospel isn’t a history lesson for us to recall "at this time of year" The Gospel is the living word of God. In a world filled with broken trust, and people’s self-worth being undermined, individuals who are used and discarded, our God invites you and I - to be a part of His plan. To experience how miraculous things unfold when we are open to imaging, open to asking ourselves "What great things does God want to conceive in me?" Because it’s easy to dismiss all of this, isn’t it? Right now the devil’s whispering "Well that’s Mary, she’s the Mother of God" or looking at others and just presuming that they must be more holy, or they must be more talented, or God must think of them so much more than me as we allow ourselves to apply the brokenness of this world and view God through that lense telling ourselves "God’s only calling holy people to do holy things." All of those things are lies, tremendous lies that limit God’s power. That limit us.

The Good News this Gospel is proclaiming to you and I is that God wants to include us in His wondrous plan. That’s one reason why we hear at Mass several times "The Lord be with you" That’s not just a nice Church greeting. It’s a reminder. It’s a call - That God is with you. He is calling you to be a part of his great, creative, mysterious, plan.

A few days from now - we will gather to celebrate the Birth of Jesus Christ. People around the world will recall that historic event that has forever changed and transformed human history. But the beautiful message from the Gospel is that God is inviting us to live that mystery ourselves, to once again bring Christ to birth here and now. Knowing that our loving Father has by his redemptive work given us an eternal self worth, knowing how deeply he trusts us, do we dare to ask "What great things does God want to conceive in me?"

NOT A HERO - JUST DOING A JOB

Hi everyone, here’s my homily for the THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT - December 14, 2014 - the readings for today’s Mass can be found at: http://usccb.org/bible/readings/121414.cfm. Thanks as always for reading this blog, for sharing it on Facebook, Twitter and on the web (always surprised when I see the different countries people visit from) - and for your comments and feedback. God Bless - Fr. Jim

As Christmas preparations begin to hit a fever pitch, could I ask you to consider a gift to our Newman Center in our Christmas Appeal?  We conduct these fundraising appeals only twice a year to help our mission of bringing Christ to our students and campus - and your generosity is greatly appreciated.  Read more at www.MSUNEWMAN.com.  Many thanks for your support and consideration.

HOMILY:

The last few weeks, police officers have been in the news a lot.  Often times those stories focused on tragic, terrible incidents that became national stories for weeks and months because some public or media figures learned a few details of those stories and for a variety of reasons, that range from the pursuit of noble ideals like examining what is "just" to far more sinister opportunists who seem to want to use these incidents to promote a particular agenda (or themselves). As a result, there’s been some decent debates; sadly a tremendous amount of stupid, lawless, criminal behavior and even more sadly, further division among communities and peoples of our great nation.  

Another consequence of all this has been that the focus has been fixated on a few incidents and that other stories have been somewhat ignored. Stories that happen far more frequently than we would ever hear about in the national news.
Like Sgt. Patrick Hildenbrand.  A few weeks ago, this cop from New York thought he was pulling over a speeding driver. What he found was a panic-stricken father who was frantically carrying the seemingly lifeless body of his 22 month old son.  The boy had suffered a seizure, and collapsed. The father, obviously desperate, was racing to the hospital when Sgt. Hildenbrand came upon them and stopped them.

The 17-year veteran of the police force asked the father where he lived and knew they didn’t have time to wait for the ambulance. He knew he would need to take the father and son to the hospital himself in his Police SUV.  What he did next is what is even more remarkable. As he is driving with the lights and sirens going to get to the hospital, he simultaneously performed CPR on the boy in the backseat.

Yes, you heard that right. As he was driving, he was performing CPR on the kid at the same time.  As he explained it: "I reached my hand back here as I'm driving, moved my body over and started doing all the compressions and feeling for a pulse while I could still operate the vehicle."  When they arrived at the hospital, Hildenbrand continued CPR while he carried the boy to doctors: "The medical staff did their stuff and the baby started crying," Hildenbrand said. The Emergency Room Physician put it simply: "I really don't think this child would be here today if it wasn't for those efforts."

If anyone would seem to deserve the recognition of "Hero" it would be Sgt Hildenbrand. But, like thousands of other officers who encounter life and death situations on a daily basis, he is much more matter of fact about it in saying he doesn’t consider himself a hero:  "A lot of cops do crazy things to save peoples' lives and don't get recognized."

Stories like that don't absolve the few bad cops who do bad things.  But it should give us pause for thought and recognize how the vast majority of them do encounter life and death situations – situations that to many of us would be some of the most dramatic, vividly memorable days of our lives – but for the police officers it becomes routine to them that this one cop driving while performing CPR at the same time doesn’t really see it as being anything other than his job.

That’s not just true of cops. Being chaplain to the West Orange Fire Department, I know
that’s very true of firefighters and the EMT squad. I come from a family of public school teachers, and I know that’s true of them - how my Mom and my brothers and sister in law all sacrificed more than any contractual obligation, not because they were being "heroic" but because they saw it as doing their jobs.  There’s something beautifully matter-of-fact about these and I’m sure countless other examples in which we so often lose sight because they are so matter of fact.

That’s what came to mind praying with this Gospel passage. No doubt some of you might have been thinking as you heard it, "didn't we just hear this gospel last week? Did the priest read the wrong reading? Or -  Do they do reruns or repeats in Church? Because there's a lot of similarities between last Sunday's and this Sunday's readings.  They're both about John the Baptist; they both contain the quote from Isaiah about "the voice in the desert" calling people to prepare the way of the Lord. They both talk have John's testimony about who he is and who he is not.

But there's a very curious difference from last Sunday's reading from the Gospel of Mark to this reading we just heard from the Gospel of John. The Jewish priests, the Levites go to John the Baptist and the gospel paints a scene that's interesting. In the course of a few sentences you heard him being interrogated:

Who are you???

What are you???

Are you Elijah???

Are you the prophet???

Who are you???

What do you have to say for yourself??
To this somewhat unrelenting questioning, John the Baptist refuses to make himself out to be more than simply doing what he perceives as his job... Yes, it’s a divinely ordered job, coming from the Lord... It’s anything but routine. But John is amazingly matter-of-fact about it. He responds to there questioning: "I am not the Christ" - I am not Elijah - I am not the prophet.   Who is he? I am the voice of one crying out in the desert, ‘make straight the way of the Lord’.

John the Baptist, just doing his job.

His personal humility though similar to the heroic actions we see in our fellow citizens who serve us and consider it routine should only serve to underscore for you and I the importance of his job... the importance of His message.  The original listeners to John were arguing about who he was.  Some wanting him to be someone more than he was, or something he wasn’t.  Others worried he would undermine their exalted senses of themselves, their own personal agendas.    John the Baptist has none of that. He rebukes the temptation to exalt himself. He doesn’t let the others off the hook trying to ignore the message that God has put into his heart, his soul - being proclaimed from his mouth and lips, even thousands of years later.

"Jesus Christ is the Messiah, the Prophet greater than any prophet, the One who came to set all things right - he alone, and no one else. John had clear and distinct ideas about Jesus, do we?" (Fr. John Bartunek, The Better Part, p 798)

As Catholic Christians, with the countdowns continuing and sounding louder and louder to prepare for the celebration of Christmas with greater urgency, this Third Sunday of Advent reminds us of the importance in rejoicing in God our savior, and the importance of our jobs as Jesus’ disciples, to humbly "do our job" - an amazingly important one, a job that in some ways takes heroic efforts in our day and age, but one that we are called to engage in... To Prepare the way of the Lord once again. As one "meme" that floated around the other day put it: It is up to us to keep Christ in Christmas - how?  Feed the hungry, clothe the naked, forgive the guilty, welcome the stranger and unwanted child, heal the sick, love our enemies, come together as brothers and sisters at Mass.

In doing so, we may feel the continual pull of the world that we are "going the wrong way." We are swimming upstream in a downstream world. It is not normal or natural to "do our jobs" as light-bearers for Christ, but people will notice the light and be drawn to it. We are not the light, but we carry it deep inside of ourselves. In doing our job, the Light will shine, sometimes in very dark places. When that happens, others will know that God's presence is there for them. They will know His great love for them and understand a  little bit more not just about the specialness of a baby born over 2000 years ago; but the living, risen Christ, who is alive in our midst, and if we let him, alive in our lives as well.

ENDING THE "WAR ON CHRISTMAS?"

Hi everyone, here is my homily for the SECOND SUNDAY OF ADVENT - December 7, 2014. The readings for today can be found at http://usccb.org/bible/readings/120714.cfm . Thanks as always for reading this blog, for your sharing it throughout social media and all your comments and feedback. It’s much appreciated. God Bless, Fr Jim.

As Christmas preparations begin to hit a fever pitch, could I ask you to consider a gift to our Newman Center in our Christmas Appeal?  We conduct these fundraising appeals only twice a year to help our mission of bringing Christ to our students and campus - and your generosity is greatly appreciated.  Read more at www.MSUNEWMAN.com.  Many thanks for your support and consideration.

 
HOMILY:


Between friends posts on Facebook; overhearing random conversations and just a quick glance around town you get the sense that a lot of people are working overtime in preparation for "the Holiday’s." That’s not my attempting to be PC and not say "Christmas" here - but rather to cover everything from Thanksgiving through New Years with some made-up things like "Festivus"; office party’s, Friends-givings; and so on. It’s a celebratory time of year which means a lot of different things to a lot of different people.

The thing that hit me though with all of this celebratory stuff going on is how - no matter what people believe or think - a common bond that everyone seems to be sharing right now is we’re busy preparing. Very busy preparing for these annual celebrations. Just look at that beautiful tree in Rockefeller Center that was just lit up this week - there’s been crews of people working full-time, non stop for weeks on that - just to cut the tree, transport it to New York, get it up, put scaffolding around it to put miles upon miles of lights on it... that took the work and effort of a small army of people.

Far less visible to the entire world than that tree - and we can attest to how many of us are doing the same things in our own homes, offices, dorm rooms. A friend shared before and after pictures of her house online that chronicled how she had spent the days after Thanksgiving decorating with the update "three-days of non-stop decorating and I’m finally done!" I saw this other house that did a "Frozen" theme light show that I can’t imagine how many days, weeks took to put together.

Objectively speaking, when we look at it, all of it is quite impressive. Whether people or communities are going with the non-holiday-specific white snowflakes on lamposts or places that have nativity scenes complete with live animals roaming around - in a lot of ways, it’s beautiful. We see how people put forth so much work, so much creativity, so much effort to turn this environment of ours - which at this time of year, with the leaves from the trees gone, the weather making a dramatic turn which has made everything feel and look a bit barren, a bit cold, a bit deserted - to see all of that transformed to make it feel alive, colorful, joy-filled even. For those who’ve done that work, you know how much preparation goes into each of those things.

The thing for us as Christians, we have mixed feelings about "Christmas being co-opted." I must admit that the so-called "War on Christmas" has angered me in past years, and at times, still does, especially when it seems some people go out of their way to attempt to remove any connection to the religious aspect of the season or feign they’ve been hurt or slighted by any reference to it being Jesus Christ’s birthday that we’re celebrating... that’s called being extreme.

But on the other hand, I know that when I get sucked into those debates, those arguments, I can get drawn into the other extreme... where I lose sight of the signs, the sights of the season. Do I really want to argue whether that store that has a "Happy Holiday’s" sign up because they hate Christians? or if that other guy who doesn’t even believe in God has "Merry Christmas" hanging in his store window is just doing that because he wants my Christian money (which has as much value as atheist dollars and cents). We can get distracted, wrapped up in so much of that stuff... and can come here to look to rally together for this fight in this so-called War on Christmas for our side.

But I really don’t think that’s what the season of Advent is about.

Maybe we can look at all of this from a different perspective this year. Because all of the physical efforts we’ve seen to make our winter wonderlands, Santa villages, even Frozen -theme light shows so elaborate is really a modern metaphor to some of what we just heard in the readings.  check out this house if you want to see the epitome of elaborate!



We just heard the beginning of the Gospel of Mark proclaimed, which tells us that John the Baptist was fulfilling the role of Isaiah the prophet from the Old Testament. John is speaking to the world as the voice of one crying out "Prepare the way of the Lord, make straight his paths." That ties the Gospel to the words from the prophet himself that we heard in the first reading. If you missed them, they are words of tremendous expectations: A voice cries out - In the desert - prepare the way of the Lord - make straight in the wasteland a highway for our God! Every valley shall be filled in, every mountain and hill shall be made low... and so on.

Again, it took weeks (months even?) and a small army of people to bring one tree to Rockefeller Center, can you imagine what type of effort, time, resources it would take to fill in a valley, to level a mountain? You see in, our day and age, thousands of years since those words of Isaiah were first uttered - we can drive to the George Washington Bridge and see how excavation crews can cut through a mountain to build a highway for cars - we might not realize that’s no easy task to accomplish. These types of things take a lot of time, a lot of effort, a lot of energy and resources to accomplish.


All of those poetic images are meant to point out for each of us the difficult, the extensive, the time-consuming, all encompassing efforts it takes spiritually for us to prepare a place for Christ to enter in. We can sometimes fall into the trap of thinking that just getting here to Mass has us covered. But that would be like those of us who going into New York looking at the tree and say "how beautiful" as we stare at it for five minutes, take a few pictures and then go sight-seeing and shopping-- having no idea the effort to put that up - or if some friend walked into your elaborately decorated home and simply saying "Oh that’s nice" as if they looked at some store bought plant that you have on a table.

We can’t simply be in the presence of the Lord and think we’ve got it, we’ve done the work to welcome Him in ourselves. When someone comes to the door, it's easy to leave them out on the porch talking through the screendoor. But if you ask them inside, you are taking more of a risk in being vulnerable. That is not a bad thing, especially when it’s Jesus Christ who is at our doors. Don't leave Him on the porch. Invite Him in and make room for Him in your life.

That takes real personal preparation on our parts to prepare the way of the Lord. To make straight in the wasteland a highway for our God - to invite Him in from the porch. I am recognizing my need for God, my absolute dependence on Him - that I need and want Him to come, to come into my world, come into my life. I need Him and so do you. We can’t fool ourselves that we don't … if we do, we will fall short.

There are valleys that need to be filled in each of our lives – valleys of selfishness, of self-centeredness that have led to an arrogance, a false belief I can do things on my own, where I forget my need for God in my life. There are mountains and hills need to be leveled in each of our lives – – Obstacles preventing God that seem insurmountable for Him to truly entering my life and yours.  He has seen it all:  the mountains of sin, addiction, struggles those things which allows the devil to repeat lie after lie to the point that we can start to believe those lies and forget that God loves me so much. Have we forgotten that? He wants so much for me and you to be His sons and Daughters. He loves us so much that He sent His son Jesus to come to us, and desires Him to make a home not simply among us- but within us....


This is the hard work of the season of Advent, to prepare the way of the Lord, to welcome Him anew. And if we allow it, we can let the beauty of the "holiday season" constantly make us aware of the Advent Season – a time of waiting and preparing our hearts. Pope Benedict XVI a few years ago put it like this: "Let us remember... as we look at the streets and squares of the cities decorated with dazzling lights, that these lights refer us to another light, invisible to the eyes but not to the heart."

If we keep that advent focus - to be aware of, attentive to that light - of Christ...

If we become aware of how perhaps that light has dimmed in our own hearts, we can engage in the difficult preparations, the hard work of straightening, filling and leveling that needs to take place in us for the light to be brightened and glow in our lives...

Then the true meaning of the season will be recaptured, not in a "war" being won, but in the lived witness and testimony we offer. As we prepare to commemorate the first coming of God in the special package of a little baby at that first Christmas, May you and I encounter Jesus Christ here and now, prepare to welcome him anew and experience the empowerment of God's Holy Light in the houses of our own hearts.

THANKSGIVING DISASTER AVERTED - NOW FOR AN ETERNAL ONE...

Hi everyone, hope that you all had a blessed Thanksgiving and Happy New Year!  That's right, tonight the Church begins it's new "Liturgical Year" with this season of ADVENT.  Here is my homily for the FIRST SUNDAY OF ADVENT -November  30, 2014.  The readings can be found at: http://usccb.org/bible/readings/113014.cfm.  Thanks as always for reading this blog, sharing it and your feedback.

As Christmas preparations begin to hit a fever pitch, could I ask you to consider a gift to our Newman Center in our Christmas Appeal?  We conduct these fundraising appeals only twice a year to help our mission of bringing Christ to our students and campus - and your generosity is greatly appreciated.  Read more at www.MSUNEWMAN.com.  Many thanks for your support and consideration.


HOMILY:


A couple of weeks ago, a friend of mine called and asked "what are you and your family doing for Thanksgiving." Even through the phone I could hear his shock when I told him I was hosting my family.  Quite simply, he knows me well enough that cooking a "Hot Pocket" can be a bit of a challenge at times and that my improvisation in the kitchen could include me trying to google if there’s a way to cook a Turkey on a George Forman grill.  At any rate, I quickly confessed that I had planned to order everything pre-cooked from a local supermarket. About a week and a half ago, I ran over there to put the order in. I never realized how complicated even ordering a meal could be.  Do you want an organic-antibiotic free bird that’s been brined? (What? Ah, yeah, that sounds fine...) What sides do you want. You need to order 2lb minimum per side (okay is 2lbs of mashed potatoes enough for 6 adults and 3 kids?)

I was getting antsy just making these choices but it seemed like it was going okay. Then the lady asked me "Father, when do you want to pick this up? Wednesday night? Because Thursday from 6- 8 in the Morning it’s going to be a mob scene here..." I thought for a second - I didn’t want to get everything the night before and then have it sit till the next day - I mean, again, I’m not a cook, how would I fix it all so that it still tasted fresh from the oven/stove overnight? So I said "well what’s the latest I can come and pick it all up?" She said "well I’m not sure how late the store is open till, but our department will only be here till around noon" - so I said "Okay, how’s 11:00 on Thanksgiving?" She stopped and said "Well, yeah, we can have it ready for you then." Perfect... I thought. Then she asked a strange question "What time are you having everyone for dinner" - I’m not paranoid or anything but was thinking why is she asking that, is she looking for an invite or something? But I let that random thought fly out of my head and just responded "1:30/2:00" She then said "you do know that you have to cook the Turkey..."

Uh.... what?

And then she pointed to the text just above all the different bird options that clearly said "OVEN READY TURKEY" - meaning they have it all set for you to cook. "OH NO - NO NO NO" - "Father it’s really not that hard..." as she pulled out the directions. After I explained this was definitely not going to be my year to experiment cooking a Thanksgiving Dinner and that if need be I would go to Boston Market, buy a bunch of there rotiserre Chickens and pass it off as Turkey, she came up with another Turkey option which didn’t involve cooking the bird.

In a lot of ways I’m extremely grateful that she pressed me on the details. The fact that I hadn’t really paid close enough attention to something clearly stated right in front of me could’ve resulted in a lot of anxiety, frustration, embarrassment on Thanksgiving. (I’m imagining that I would’ve decided to double the temperature of the oven to cook the bird in record time) If not for this stranger’s care and concern, Thanksgiving dinner could’ve been a bit of a disaster.

In tonight’s Gospel, we hear words of care and concern - not from a stranger, but rather the one who knows us most intimately: Jesus Christ. And he’s offering this very short, somewhat abrupt little parable to help us avoid not some kitchen nightmare but a real, eternal disaster for us individually. 

Are we prepared for the day when we meet Jesus Christ face to face? We don’t know if that will be at the end of the world (whose date is a mystery that only God himself knows) or our own "end" (whose date is also a mystery that only God himself knows). But in either case, this Gospel opens up a new year in the Church - a new season in the Church called "Advent." It’s hard with Black-Friday, Cyber Monday and all the other Christmas commercialization for us not to apply that here as well. Advent isn’t meant to be the pre-Christmas season in Church...  True, Advent will (the last week of the season) recall the anticipation of the world at the first coming of Christ at the first Christmas.  But Advent means a lot more than that. At it’s core, Advent is about welcoming Christ not just back then- but knowing and anticipating his return at the end... and the best way to do that; to be prepared for that is to welcoming him here and now. 

That’s why this brief Gospel parable of the master of the house, Jesus gives us the perfect summary of what Advent is about. Waiting.... Watchfulness... Readiness.

Jesus calls us to realize our responsibilities in the present as we dare to look forward to the promise of the future. As many times as we’ve heard similar messages, we realize we can sometimes miss by obliviously moving through, thinking everything’s fine, we’ve got it covered, we’ve got plenty of time to get all that we need to do.

But Jesus reminds us that we simply don’t know how much time we have.  And the preparations we need to undertake really vary from person to person - because it’s not holiday preparations like gift buying, sending cards or even cooking a Turkey.   Things like Love and Compassion... Forgiveness and Healing given to and received from those around us... yeah that’s hard, difficult work, without real time-tables attached to each of those things. Jesus tells us to watch and not be found asleep. It's easy to fall asleep when surrounded by blessings, like a turkey dinner. Life can get so comfortable that we can nod off. But in doing so, we are missing the brunt of what is needed; we need to be aware and ready.

But here’s the thing, Advent isn’t meant to add stress to our already stress filled lives. We’re not to anxiously run through all those things in a mad dash to check them off our list, but rather to reflect, and confront with the preciousness and fragileness of our lives what choices, what values, what beliefs are important enough to LIVE for.  Because in the end, life is a constant Advent experience:
the world is not as just,
not as loving,
not as whole as we know it can and should be;

we are constantly waiting to become,
to discover,
to understand,
to change,
to complete,
to fulfill.

Hope, struggle, fear, expectation and fulfillment are all part of life's Advent. The coming of Christ and his presence among us -- as one of us now -- gives us reason to live in hope:
that light will shatter the darkness,
that we can be liberated from our fears and prejudices,
that we are never alone or abandoned by our merciful Father in heaven.

He walks with us through the advent opportunities He gives to prepare ourselves for His return. What a great day of celebration and feasting that will be!