I think it was the 6th inning when the friend I was with had to excuse himself after having few "beverages." That happens to be the moment when Short Stop Chuck Knoblauch comes up to the plate and cracks a monster grand slam home run that sets the stadium absolutely shaking and ties the game.
The one thing my buddy didn’t want to hear, after waiting over two hours in traffic to get into the Bronx, another hour of pre-game nonsense and non-stop introductions of players, bat boys, waterboys, watching the Yankees trailing for the entire game; then being on line for the bathroom, and then hearing Chuck Knoblauch’s grand slam home run from the announcers on the radio broadcast being aired inside the stadium – the one thing he didn’t want to hear from me when he got back to his seat was "Oh, you missed it!" YOU THINK????
That could be anything though, couldn’t it?
You miss that dinner out with a group of friends at Sams Place and they’re still laughing about something that happened and they try to explain it to you saying you just had to be there – "Oh, you missed it..."
It’s frustrating, to say the least... And in those cases, it’s not like there’s anything we can do about it - Things happen and at times we miss whatever the it is: There are times we need to "excuse" ourselves after having a few beverages; other commitments might have prevented you from being able to go out with your friends; and how were you to know that if you had skipped that class or cancelled that appointment that you might just bump into a celebrity? Frustrating, but there’s nothing you can do about those missed opportunities.
What’s worse is when you made the deliberate choice to forgo something and end up missing out on something. "Hey, you in for this week’s lotto pool?" - Nah, we never win, I’m going to skip on it this week - and the next week there’s the picture of 20 office people with one of those giant checks...
- They miss it because they want to debate Why the guy is blind -debating that either his parents or the guy himself must have done something wrong that resulted in his blindness (in case you missed it - Jesus says it’s neither; we don’t have a vengeful God who punishes people with a disability because of someone’s sin)
- They miss it because they think God has to operate by the same rules they’ve been commanded to – that God can’t cure on the Sabbath, because we’re not suppose to work on the Sabbath (they seem to have a pretty high opinion of themselves putting themselves on the same level as God).
- They miss it because they refuse to consider that Jesus Christ is who he says he is -the Messiah they supposedly anticipated but were blind themselves from seeing. That the Messiah was more than just a king, He was in fact God himself – the Son of God...
- They miss it because in their desire to prove themselves right - they want to intimidate the man who Jesus had opened his eyes and his parents from speaking the truth about the miracle that Jesus had done; what God had done for them.
How different from last week’s Gospel - the Samaritan woman meets Jesus, talks with Him, is moved and transformed by Jesus and the whole town is forever changed by that. Here, this man is touched - healed - transformed - and the whole town rejects him, the town rejects Jesus, – Oh man did they miss it...
And this isn’t about giving Jesus credit for healing this man.
This is about curing the blindness within all humanity; the blindness in all of us.
It’s about seeing that God does work miracles in our lives.
It’s about seeing that God is active in our lives.
It’s about seeing that Jesus wants to touch you - every single one of you and heal whatever blinds you from seeing and feeling and knowing how much God loves you and I.
Because the thing of it is, if we miss that, we miss a whole lot.
I can’t get that line out of my head from that first reading – Samuel is looking for the new king of Israel. He sees a guy Eliab, one of Jesse’s sons, he looks kingly - like he would fit the bill and God says - NOPE - Eliab’s a nice guy - but he ain’t the one. Why? Not as man sees does God see - because man sees the appearance but the Lord looks into the heart.
We should write that down and look at that every day. God’s not some disinterested creator who set this all in motion and watches us with some sense of amusement (like we’re his entertainment) God loves you. Jesus walks with you and is calling each of you to something - something unique - something special - something he put into your heart the moment you were conceived.
What is holding us back from truly seeing that? How is it we’re missing that?
Jesus loves us so much, that he’s not even waiting for us to ask for the cure to our blindness - he’s offering it to us. He’s telling us if we believe in him as the Son of Man, we will have a new vision. We will be able to see how God is present to us and how that can change our vision of things; change the path we’re on; transform the gift of life we’ve been given.
Because the last thing we want to hear at the end of our lives is Jesus saying to us "Oh, you missed it"